Not To Lose A Guy – How Is It Possible?
by Malehealth Guru on Mar.22, 2010, under Relationships
There are a lot of ways out how to get your ex back. And I think every smart girl remembers all her faults and misunderstandings arising when she was still together with her ex. So first of all don’t repeat your mistakes in past and of course to get your ex back care not to make new ones. If you used to call your ex-boyfriend millions of times per day and perhaps per night just to check his location please don’t do it any more as boys are free creatures and they are very much careful about their freedom and independence. And even if you call from the unknown number your sweet boyfriend will for sure understand that it is you dear who is calling. Don’t even lie to yourself that he may think that it is his friend who is constantly calling him as boys don’t have such a habit to keep on calling and calling to each other.
Another thing: you may ask him about some football match that will take place soon but of course in advance you should know that your ex is the big fun of that team and of football on the whole so you can start meeting him from time to time when watching football and you can appear in his eyes as the one who shares his interests. Of course you don’t have to watch football and to become a football fan but you can pay attention to some football players and become the fan exactly of the football players. You should always learn some things from each experience you get even if it is just a football game experience.
You should always pay attention at everything you are doing and saying, my advice is to plan some conversations in advance so that you know where it will lead. It is much easy to write about how to lose a guy so I think you should just do things the other way. When you talk to your ex imagine that it is only he who exists in this world and become all ears to listen to what he says, try to laugh when he makes jokes, look in his eyes when you talk to him and try to make him compliments for example about the colour of his car, his new haircut even, his attitude towards this or that situation even if it was only normal behavior.
Another thing – you must be very understanding, at least pretend that you understand his stupid way of thinking or ridiculous behavior or his sometimes not funny jokes. Try to agree and to support if you see that it is necessary otherwise quarrel is inevitable and that is what you need to avoid getting him back. Try to become his friend, the person without who he is not thinking his life but not become too much friend otherwise he may ask you to go to some pub and pick up some boys and girls for you. Be close enough but know measures.
Hope you will listen to all that written above and follow the advices.
It is almost impossible to avoid the cases when you face the how to get your ex back situation. The biggest problem here is that people think too much about how to get your ex back, instead of putting this whole story in another way. It is not about how to get your ex back, really. It is about how to make it interesting again.
